Sexual Bucket List (Part 3)

Sexual Bucket List (Part 3)

So, here we go again.

As I’ve said before, this sexual bucket list, I found on the Good To Know website.  I like it because it’s stuff that I could do; fantasies can become reality; I can even cross some of them off already!! What about you?

Lick your partner from head to toe

Foreplay is such an important part of sex but it's often rushed. So, next time take everything a little bit slower, and really enjoy what you're doing. Lick your partner all over their body from their ears, to their toes and every inch in between.

(Oh, and don't forget to get your turn too!)

Use handcuffs

There's loads of different ways to use handcuffs during sex, but if you're a beginner then the best way to start is by handcuffing your partner to the headboard of your bed. They'll be so turned on by you being completely in charge! And don't forget to switch roles so he has a turn at taking control too.

Rough sex

Rough sex is great every once in a while and it doesn't always have to be your man who's in charge. Take the lead and let him know who's boss, he won't know what's hit him! Pull his hair, nibble and bite him and scratch his back - just make sure you don't leave any lasting damage.

Wear sexy lingerie

If you want to give your confidence a boost then wearing your sexiest lingerie will do the trick. And we promise your other half won't be complaining.

Roleplay

Whatever yours or your partner's roleplay fantasy is, from police woman to nurse to pretending you've just met, get dressed up and in the mood and give it a go. Roleplay is a great way of mixing up your sex life, especially if you've been together for a long time - plus, you get to play our your ultimate fantasies.

Have sex in your old bedroom

You'll have loads of memories from times in your childhood bedroom so why not make some new exciting ones too! Head home with your partner and get down to it. (You may want to tell your parents you're looking through old photos though; as we're not sure they'll be too thrilled about the idea.)

Watch porn

If you've always wondered why men love porn so much and what all the fuss is about, then get online and get watching with your other half. You never know, you might just like it.

Go on a dirty weekend away

Dirty weekends need some thought. If you want to get down to having some seriously good, uninterrupted nookie while you're away, set some ground rules. No TV, no phones and no shopping! Book yourselves into an indulgent hotel, lock the door and promise to dedicate the time entirely to each other.

Make your own sex tape

A sex tape is a good way for you and your partner to feel closer to each other and it'll be great if you don't live together or have a long distance relationship. You only need a cheap camera or a phone to be able to video and the results are sure to be pretty exciting.

If you are planning on making a sex tape, have 100% trust in your partner and the fact that it won't end up anywhere you don't want it to (and keep hold of a copy, too).

Have sex on the beach

Definitely not one to try during the midday sun-bathing rush, but sex on the beach is great if you love outdoors sex. Make sure you lay a blanket down first or use a sunbed, or you might end up with sand in your bits!

…so, that’s all you’re getting for now; quite enough to add a bit of colour to your lives, eh?! Lol!

We’re halfway through the 50 suggestions that are listed. I hope you’re enjoying them as much as I am.

Just a reminder: search the tag #SexualBucketList to find all my related posts.

Sexual Bucket List (Part 2)

 Sexual Bucket List (Part 2)

So, here we go. As I told you last time, the sexual bucket list that I like, I found on the Good To Know website. Why do I like it? because it’s not just about kinky or weird new ways to have sex or obscure fetishes but the things they suggest on this list are definitely do-able in my world. Fantasies can become reality; I can even cross some of them off already!! What about you?

Go skinny dipping together

If you're on holiday then head to the beach one evening, ditch the bikini and go skinny dipping together. The moonlight on the water will make it romantic and the naughtiness of what you're doing will be thrilling. Just make sure you remember where you've left your clothes!

Love bites

Giving or receiving a love bite can be really erotic when you're in the moment - the key is to make sure they're not anywhere that you can't hide with clothing, or you might get some funny looks on the school run.

 Have really loud sex!!

Us Brits are pretty reserved as far as sex goes, so the idea of screaming and shouting while doing it may not float everybody's boat. BUT - it's a bit like laughing out loud. Soon after you start, even if it's a fake laugh to begin with, quickly things start to become funny.
Make sure the kids are at their grandparents and give screaming a go. You might be surprised at the results.

Join the mile-high club

If you're off on trip with your man then start your holiday by ticking joining the mile-high club off your bucket list. OK, we know it's a bit risky but if you're careful you can become a member of this exclusive club and only you and your partner need ever know!

Have a quickie

Sometimes (often, in fact) there's little time for romance or foreplay, but that doesn't have to stop you having sex. The age-old quickie is a fabulous answer to busy people, and as it's not going to take long, you can be pretty inventive with where you do it, too.

Have a threesome

Whether your fantasy threesome is with another man or another woman, make sure you and your partner have fully discussed exactly what you both want to happen (and more importantly, not happen) before you begin. Threesomes can be really fun as long as no-one gets jealous mid-way!

Have sex with someone you're in love with

As exciting as sex with someone new can be, there's nothing better than having sex with someone who you're completely in love with. So, if you're lucky enough to have found that person, then make the most of them!

Use a sex toy alone

Sex toys are great whether you're single or in a relationship. If you're a vibrator virgin, don't be put off by the huge amount of scary looking contraptions out there. Have a browse and order online to spare your blushes and then book in some quality 'alone time' to experiment.

Sex in front of a mirror

Spice up your sex life by watching you and your partner at it. Start by standing in front of a mirror and kissing, then undressing each other. Keep the lights down low if you're a bit unsure to start with. You'll soon lose your inhibitions!

 Kiss in the rain

Remember The Kiss in Four Weddings and a Funeral? Hugh Grant may not be everyone's cup of tea, but there's no doubt, that kiss was one of the most romantic film moments of all time. Wait for the next downpour and get in the garden with your other half. You'll be surprised how thrilling the wet and cold can be. (Warming up should be quite good fun too!)

…so, that’s all you’re getting for now; quite enough to whet your whistle, eg?! Lol!

Over the next week I’m going to continue to post the 50 suggestions that they list, a few at a time of course, it would be a huge post if I did it all in one go. 
I’ll use the tag #SexualBucketList so you can keep them together… after all building anticipation is all part of the fun.

Sexual Bucket List (Part 1)

Sexual Bucket List

A bucket list, if you’ve never heard of one before, is a list of things you’d like to do, experience or achieve before you ‘kick the bucket’. 

People make these lists as encouragement to live their lives to the fullest, to have something to aim for, to look forward to. 

A bucket list can include absolutely anything you want; riding in a hot air balloon, learning how to knit, running a marathon, singing in public, swimming with dolphins, being on telly, etc.

Well that’s all very interesting but it’s the 21^st century, after all, and here we are on the internet, so…. let’s talk about sex.

What sexual things would you like to try? 

Are there things you’re interested in but are afraid to try them?

What if money was no problem and you could add everything and anything to the list that you’re really interested in?

I've trawled the internet and I’ve found a few of these sexual bucket lists on various websites around especially for us ladies. 

Here are some of their ideas:

Give him your knickers on a night out with him

 Have sex in at least 3 different countries

Take nude photos of your lover (or yourself) in a public place

Snog a total stranger

Give him your knickers on a night out with him 

 Learn Shibari

For one day, flirt outrageously without worrying what anyone else thinks

Learn the art of striptease or burlesque

Be part of an orgy.
Kiss 5 people that you want to kiss but never dared
Kiss 10 hot people, just because you can
Buy a good sexy corset
Flash my boobs to a stranger

Be part of a sexy sleepover
Have sex with a celebrity
Learn how to squirt

Go to a nudist beach

Have multiple orgasms, after another, and after another

Fuck with someone watching you

Let a dog or cat lick your clit

Temperature play

Have sex on the hood of your car

 Have sex in a sauna

Experience a water-pressure orgasm

Try a two-player sex toy

So, my delicious readers, do any of these float your boat or tickle your fancy? 

What would you put on your Sexual Bucket List? 

In my mind there’s a difference between total fantasy and what would add a bit of colour and spice to my existence. So although I’d love a threesome with John Cusack AND Kiefer Sutherland, I’m gonna have to keep this real.  

The list I like, and will use as my Sexual Bucket List, I found on the Good To Know website.  Looking through it, I can even cross some of them off already!!

Over the next week I’m going to post the 50 suggestions that they list, a few at a time, it would be a huge post if I did it all in one go. I’ll use the tag #SexualBucketList so you can keep them together.…. And after all building anticipation is all part of the fun.